The means of guilt-tripping people into doing things via gifts has a name: the “rule of reciprocation”. http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2012/11/26/165570502/give-and-take-how-the-rule-of-reciprocation-binds-us
Elliot Shank
Music-obsessed software geek. One of Breakmaster Cylinder’s Internet weirdos. He/him.